What do you want your legacy to be?

This is the weekly question posted on the Baby Tea Leaves blog.

I just want to be remembered as the rich, skinny bitch who's milkshake brings all the boys to the yard.

Not really...Ok maybe a little.

I really just want people to remember me as being kind and generous and always willing to give of myself for others. Even if that is not how you see me now, that is how I want you to remember me when I am gone. Oh, and don't throw a big party and try to pass it off as something that I would have wanted. You all know that you are really just celebrating. Don't make we visit you from the grave.